FRIENDSHIP

Most FRIENDSHIPS are based on a mutual interest, and when that interest disappears, so does the friendship.
What we all need is a soul friend, faithful, loyal, willing to  support us along this life's journey with its struggles and its joys.
But how do we keep our friend(s)?...
Common interests is a good base to start our friendships, however, we should  remember the following:
Consider the Spirit/Divine in yourSelf and in the other.  We are ONE with the other(s).
Reflect together at home or in nature; ponder on the beauty of nature together and build trust__the key to lasting friendship.
Soul friendship is a blessing worth striving for and it needs a spiritual dimension to survive.


Seeing Spirit in everyone lifts the veil of separation     Dalai Lama.

My friendship flows from the Highest Source... Gandhi

Our longing for more arises from what is infinite within us.  John Welwood

Friendship is the only cure for hatred, the only guarantee of peace.... 
Love is a gift of one's inner most soul to another so both can be whole.    Buddha

A person of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.   Prov 18:24
A faithful friend is a sure shelter, whoever finds one has found a rare treasure... Sirach 6:14

Greater love has no one than to lay down one's life for the friend... Jn 15:13

One of the task of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences.  J. O'Donohue

For more on "relationships", read pp 145-175 from POWER OF NOW, 2004 by E. Tolle
Read also the book by John Welwood,  PERFECT LOVE  Imperfect Relationships, 2006


BE STILL AND KNOW...

BE STILL...

BE...

PONDER...
FRIENDSHIP




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